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Dear Goddess,

I recently had a gift come into my life that caused me to deeply reflect on what has been transformed within me over the last several years. I am so amazed by how much my relationship with money has been healed and transformed. 


This is what I would say to myself where I was at 3 years ago [things

that I didn't know then that I do know now]:

The desires that you have in your heart were planted in your heart as seeds when you came into this world. You feel called to do certain things and evolve in certain directions because this is your soul's purpose for being here. You following your callings is of high service to yourself and to the entire world. When you are engaged in following your own callings, then you are often shifted into a position where you are being of service to someone else that you had a soul contract with before you came into this world. 

When we don't have enough money for the things that we are feeling called towards in our hearts, we are operating in the energy of lack. This is not a abundant, joyful energy and you are not serving yourself or the world by being in this energy. Only YOU are holding yourself in this energy, as money is energy and you can always choose to change your relationship with any sort of energy that exists in your life. You may have witnessed this with different relationships that have evolved into being different things in your life, or with your relationship with food or your brother or sister. You can change your relationship with all things by shifting your focus and your perspective. 



When you are telling yourself that you can not afford the transformation that your heart is longing for, then you are sending a message into the universe that indeed you can not afford whatever it is that you desire. Telling yourself that you can't do something because you can't afford it is kind of the same as saying you can't do something because your husband told you that you could not do it. 

If you decide that you are going to do something, then nothing in the universe will stop that from happening.
Using money as a reason for something not to happen in your life is really you just saying that you have not decided that this will happen. 

When you only invest in things that are inside of your comfort level then you are keeping yourself vibrating at that same energetic frequency. Like all expansion, transformation requires you to stretch yourself to evolve into who you are going to be on the next stage of your journey.
 

I finally got to a place in my life where I felt tired of dealing with the same old limitations over and over again. I looked back at my life over the last five years and I realized that my soul had been longing for a big shift for quite a long time. I invested in a coaching program that terrified me. It seemed way too expensive, what could I possible get out of it? I took the leap and it hugely transformed my life. I know that many of you who have followed my work for a long time have noticed the huge transformations in my business and in my energy. I am so grateful for that experience. 

If there is anything that you desire in this world, then you need to focus on acquiring that. Remember that there is divine purpose behind all of your desires. If it is the money that is holding you back, then money is also holding you back from other things in your life as well. If you are being held back from things in your life, then you are just settling and you are not expanding into your full potential. 

I encourage you to immerse yourself into expanding your wealth consciousness. I have some awesome free resources to help with this on my website [click here]. I have three free books you can download that will help you heal your relationship with your money story. This is a great place to start. 

If you don't start now, what is your relationship with money going to look like in five years? It is my passion and my purpose to help women become fully empowered co-creators of their lives and part of this is healing their money stories. 
 
 

Such a joyful day!!





Our "friends" tossed us into the ocean




My soul mate, my new husband, my best friend. 





My happy eyes








Our nephew, singing our special songs. 

 
 
For many years my way of manifesting was to ask the universe for what I desired. I would ask the universe something like this dear universe, please bring me the perfect job/lover/body/friends, when the timing is right/when I have cleared all my crud out of the way/done the self work and I will try and be loving and accepting of when this doesn’t happen and be patient along the way.” 

Does this look like something that you have done? Do you ask the universe for something and then allow space for it to not happen?

I was setting my intentions for my day today, and one of my intentions was to have a juicy and delicious day. I set this intention into the universe, and then I immediately found myself thinking of the things that could possibly happen during the day to prevent this from happening. 

When we do this, we are creating a gap in the space of things for what we desire to not happen. We need to be at a place in our hearts where we know for certain that what we desire is there for a reason and that our intentions for creating it are part of our purpose for being here. 

Imagine this, what if when you were born into this world God planted all of your desires into your heart. Imagine if it was your purpose to live your life in a way that you were constantly in an act of creating the desires that lived in your heart. Your desires were planted in your heart as seeds to grow into some greater purpose. What if you knew with absolute certainty that there was a greater purpose for you having your desires and that the universe actually wanted to support you in succeeding in creating these desires?

How would you shift the way that you manifest and create, knowing this? It is your purpose for being here to create your desires into reality. These are the gifts that you bring into the world by being here. 

When you are consciously creating, don’t leave room for the uncertainly to creep in. When you find yourself drifting off in this direction, create a new course where you are firmly pointed towards your desires. Your desires are valid and have great purpose. Follow them like they are your life line, because they are. If each person followed a desire that was in their heart, it would bring all of those individual pieces of healing and purpose into the world.  
 
 
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I started out today with my new morning self care practice: journaling. This is one of my practices that I am using to enhance my divine feminine radiance.

The feminine is intuition, feeling into things, nurturing + receiving. The masculine is action orientated, logical + analytical. You are golden when you have both of these essences in your life in balance. You can use the feminine to feel into what you need in your life, and balance that out with the masculine action to physically do whatever action is required to create what you desire into your reality.

I am focusing on creating more room for the feminine to live in my life, to help me open up more to what I can receive from life. I have done this by creating three feminine practices to bring into my day. I journal, I move my body and I immerse myself in books that inspire me and raise my energetic frequency.

The journaling connects me to my desires and my purpose. Through my journaling I energetically connect myself to what I am creating in my life and what I am releasing in my life. It is part gratitude practice, part affirming my desires as already being in my life and part releasing my blocks that keep me stagnant and removed from the flow of life. It is a direct communion with the divine and it makes the rest of my day holy and scared.

My feminine practices support me in being the juicy, delicious, vibrant women that I am. What new practices can you bring in that will support your transformation?


 
 
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There are two perspectives to live your life from. One is from your heart and the other is from your mind.

When you are living from your mind you are creating by
finding a logical way to take action on the vision that lives inside of you. You figure out all the details of how you need to create a particular situation. You rationalize and justify all of your actions and all of your decisions. You have a cycle of thoughts that is constantly milling through your mind and you are forever balancing all the variables on your internal scale. 

When you are living from your heart then you are taking steps forward on your callings, even though you
don’t have all the details worked out yet. You are being led forward in creating the vision that lives inside of you by a mysterious pulling that guides you in unknown directions. You are following an invisible map that lives inside your heart. You are being pulled into the unknown and you try and find comfort in the constant uncertainty. 

If you are living from your mind, then you are waiting for everything to fall perfectly in place according to your mental game plan before you begin to take action.
When you are living from your heart you are in a constant state of flow although you may have no understanding of the path you are on or where it may lead.

The universe will always provide you with the information that you need to take the next step. This is the only information that you are given and you have to learn to function when only the next step forward is illuminated. If you were to be given all the information about the next 10 steps forward you would likely try and skip some of the steps, or have doubts about one of the steps and not have an understanding about how everything will work out and as a result of that you would probably refrain from taking action. When you have an idea, a vision, or a heart felt longing that is pulling you forward, then know with certainty that this is taking you towards your next step. 

You can learn how to become more in tune with living from your heart by checking in regularly and seeing what is has to say. We all have things that we desire in our lives and our hearts always know the answers about what we need to do to create these things. 

To connect to your heart, get quiet and focus on being connected to your inner essence. When you have connected to that essence, ask about what you need to know. Doubt and uncertainty are part of every learning process, don’t let them interfere with you connecting to your own guidance. The more you connect to your heart and listen to your inner guidance the more this presence will fill your life. 
 




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