I recently had a gift come into my life that caused me to deeply reflect on what has been transformed within me over the last several years. I am so amazed by how much my relationship with money has been healed and transformed.
This is what I would say to myself where I was at 3 years ago [things
that I didn't know then that I do know now]:
The desires that you have in your heart were planted in your heart as seeds when you came into this world. You feel called to do certain things and evolve in certain directions because this is your soul's purpose for being here. You following your callings is of high service to yourself and to the entire world. When you are engaged in following your own callings, then you are often shifted into a position where you are being of service to someone else that you had a soul contract with before you came into this world.
When we don't have enough money for the things that we are feeling called towards in our hearts, we are operating in the energy of lack. This is not a abundant, joyful energy and you are not serving yourself or the world by being in this energy. Only YOU are holding yourself in this energy, as money is energy and you can always choose to change your relationship with any sort of energy that exists in your life. You may have witnessed this with different relationships that have evolved into being different things in your life, or with your relationship with food or your brother or sister. You can change your relationship with all things by shifting your focus and your perspective.
When you are telling yourself that you can not afford the transformation that your heart is longing for, then you are sending a message into the universe that indeed you can not afford whatever it is that you desire. Telling yourself that you can't do something because you can't afford it is kind of the same as saying you can't do something because your husband told you that you could not do it.
If you decide that you are going to do something, then nothing in the universe will stop that from happening. Using money as a reason for something not to happen in your life is really you just saying that you have not decided that this will happen.
When you only invest in things that are inside of your comfort level then you are keeping yourself vibrating at that same energetic frequency. Like all expansion, transformation requires you to stretch yourself to evolve into who you are going to be on the next stage of your journey.
I finally got to a place in my life where I felt tired of dealing with the same old limitations over and over again. I looked back at my life over the last five years and I realized that my soul had been longing for a big shift for quite a long time. I invested in a coaching program that terrified me. It seemed way too expensive, what could I possible get out of it? I took the leap and it hugely transformed my life. I know that many of you who have followed my work for a long time have noticed the huge transformations in my business and in my energy. I am so grateful for that experience.
If there is anything that you desire in this world, then you need to focus on acquiring that. Remember that there is divine purpose behind all of your desires. If it is the money that is holding you back, then money is also holding you back from other things in your life as well. If you are being held back from things in your life, then you are just settling and you are not expanding into your full potential.
I encourage you to immerse yourself into expanding your wealth consciousness. I have some awesome free resources to help with this on my website [click here]. I have three free books you can download that will help you heal your relationship with your money story. This is a great place to start.
If you don't start now, what is your relationship with money going to look like in five years? It is my passion and my purpose to help women become fully empowered co-creators of their lives and part of this is healing their money stories.